Ok I just found out sumn bout myself. I am EXTREMELY lazy! Aseen! I cnt evn bliv myself! Lyk 2day for example I gradually watched my cell phone battery die cuz I wuz too lazy to stand up nd get the charger! My lazyness has always bin der buh nowadays its growin to xtreme levels! I guess I’m just not one of those ppl hu do necessary things despite hw tired they are. I wld rather just sleep!
So I decided to write about the ppl in my life hu reli matter.
rather than just breeze or talk bout school or boys…
So here goes:
My Mom: As much as this woman pisses me off almost every blessed day, I love her with all my heart. Shez pushy, fussy, partial, indecisive, forgetful and temperamental but then again shez there for my sisters and i. shez bin there since my dad left nd shez stl there so I guess I gotta hand that to her. She may not be the mom you love to gist with and tell all your problems but she’ll definitely be the mom that makes sure you succeed at everything you do. She may ground you unneccesarily but at least she makes sure you don’t starve. She may embarrass you infront of your friends and maybe even your crush but she provides the cool clothes that get you to a lot ov cool places. She may be stingy wiv cash sometimes but she remembers to cover you with a blanket when you fall asleep infront of the tv. She may criticise everything you do but shez also real quick to bundle you with compliments and praises when she deems it fit.
I feel bad from time to time when I remember the nasty things ive said (in my mind) to my mom. I mean, I know shez not the perfect mom or evn the ‘just ok’ mom but shez enuf for my sisters and I and im real grateful that shez in my lyf.
My Dad: I’m sure he or anyone else wont bliv he made it to the list of ppl that matter in my life. Don’t get me wrong, I heart my pops. Lyk serzly, I love him die buh hez just not reli in my life lyk he shld be or at least lyk I wnt him to be. Sure, we talk from time to time buh I wish we had sumn more. I wish we had that father-daughter relationship people talk bout. These days, I feel like there’s hardly anything for us to talk about except school, money, his health and computers. Even just last week, I went to go see him(actually to collect money) with my friends. While I was there, we didn’t even gist at all. Not even about computers! I really hope I’m not becoming redundant to him. Like those kinda kids you just hand out money to but you reli don’t care about.
Like back in the day, me and my dad used to gist dieee! I remember when we still had those NITEL landline phones. I would call him at work and gist him bout rubbish. One time we were even arguing bout which of the Destiny’s child members was the hottest. He claimed it was Kelly but I insisted it was my girl, Bee. We sha both agreed Michelle was just der as a pretty face. *Sigh* those days!!
All in all sha, I’m really grateful my dad is in my life. Even if he’s not exactly one call away…
My older sister: if u see the way me and my older sister act towards each other, someone who doesn’t know us at all might actually mistake our love for hate. We constantly tease each other like crazy. It’s soo bad that we hardly even compliment ourselves. Over the years, we’ve come to understand each other’s criticisms and take them on lightly.
Sometimes I wish I could slap the caps off my sister’s knees (got that from everybody hates chris) but I remember how she’s the only big sister I’ll ever have. One day for instance, we yelled at each other for hours over a pair of jeans and I almost thought my sister would never speak to me again. I don’t know if she does it on purpose oh, but she’s always cheating me! then when I’m protesting, I say all sorts of things I shouldn’t say then the fight grows bigger then I feel foolish. Don’t y’all just hate that feeling of stupidity when you realise you over-reacted???
Sha I wouldn’t trade my sister for anything!! Even if she doesn’t spare a dress I’ve begged her for for over a year, she’s still my lovable huggable sweeriepie! That thing vexes me sha, I’ll beg and beg for her clothes and she just wont spare them! Ok fine, she does sometimes but after I’ve begged like a foolish cow. the annoying thing is I give her my stuff almost freely! Stingy girl oshi.
Even my friends at school know that my sister’s opinion means a lot to me. and they never forget to remind me. according to them, everytime I buy something, I mutter “I wonder what my sister’ll think”
It’s kinda true sha.
My little sister: this child just makes me laugh. I swear sometimes when I’m at school and I remember her, I just chuckle to myself. People’ll probably think I’m crazy but gisting with my little 12 year old sister is one of my favourite past-times. Even if she doesn’t know half of the people in the gist, she really pays attention and is all awed and fascinated at my stories. It’s like she just adores me sometimes. She’s constantly encouraging me to finish my writings. Everytime I dress up, she’ll always be ready with a compliment. After my older sister finishes dissing my fashion combinations, it’s always a relief when my little sister comes and completely worships it.
I tell her about boys, my friends, school work, my older sister’s bugging, my mom’s hassling and she tells me the same. Sometimes she’s really shy about talking bout school to me cuz I fnk she doesn’t want to feel like she’s not cool enuf. Like my sec. sch experiences cant be compared with her dry ones so she can be really stingy with gist sometimes.
Also, she’s like a wosre version of me. you know the way, my confidence ours sporadically? Her own is extreme! Even the way she walks sometimes, you can tell she’s not feeling herself. I worry for her though cuz I kno it’s a terrible feeling. I don’t even think she has friends like that like that. Maybe just people she talks to and ols with but not friends asin friends. She has me tho. she knos I’ll always hav her bak. Evn wen my mom and older sister are all up in her grill, I step in and tell them to chill. They’ll now be saying am indulging her in rubbish. Warreva jare.
My Bff1: I have two bestest friends in the whole wide world. I don’t count family cuz if your family isn’t your best friend, who else’ll nw be?
Ehen so me and my bff1 have been friends since jss3(that’s like year 9). It all started wen we had 2 stay back in school for extension classes durin easter break. The girls I used to roll wiv started actin kinda funny. Till today, I stl don’t kno why buh anywayz I started to roll wiv bff1 and fashied dem. She was in my music class. So we basically became real tight during that extension time. Especially wen I found out her mom and dad were also broken up just like mine.
Ever since then till now, we’ve always had each other’s back. We haven’t ever even really fought. Obviously, we’ve gotten on each other’s nerves but we’ve never really had cause to really yell at ourselves and cuss out each other.
We both started different unis last year and since then we haven’t reli seen each other much. Her school is lyk som prison and they’re only allowed out for holidays and a few exeats. Even this last Christmas hols, we hung out only once. She already had new friends from school that time sef. It wasn’t all that awkward sha. We stl had fun.
Like 2 wks ago we were talking over the fone nd I was telling her bout som party I went for and all and how people frm ha sch dint evn show evn tho it was organised by one of them. She now sed that they have priorities blah blah blah. Shet! I felt rather foolish! Like wasn’t it me and her that were both party people back in the day? So we didn’t have priorities then abi? Its not like she sed it with attitude or anything ssha. She evn sed not to mind her that she was jokin but it stl stung mehn. Shez on a first class now btw. Havnt written my first exams yet but the pressure is to not be the unserious one is there mehn. Imagine if afta all my parting I don’t nw get a first class?I hope she’ll stl have my back Sha sha sha, She always does. And I’m grateful for her.
My bff2: she’s number 2 cuz I we became close later later in school not cuz shez any less of a bff than bff1. sha therz no defined story of how we started rollin. I sha kno we used to hate each other like maddd till like the end of ss2. people misunderstood her and she had a lot of hatters. Bff1 was a major 1! She always put up a bithcy front to shield her naivety and shyness. Everybody thot she was just some nasty-for-no-reason, spoilt, bossy show-off but in reality she was just a girl seeking for attention. She’s the baby of her house so no one really pays her attention at home and she wanted some at school.
I know for sure that she’ll always have my back sha. No matter how many new friends she makes. Shez in a different uni now too. Hers is even in another region of the country. We talk daily sha. She lets me know the p bout anythn goin down in her zones and I don’t let her slack either.
We’ve been thru crazy times mehn! I remember how we used to talk for hours and hours with that starcomms free weekend calls thing. We would just be saying rubbish!! Even my momz was always disgusted at how I had the phone stuck to my ear for that long.
The thing about having 2 besties is that there r something I tell bff1 that I don’t tel bff2 ad vice-versa. Like things I know bff2 would understand better, I don’t bother telling bff1. I really don’t know what I would do if bff2 wasn’t in my life.
Recently two more people have been added to my list. As some guy I met last week put it, ‘besties by default’. Like cuz bff1 and bff2 arent available at the moment, these 2 girls are here for me:
Roommate 1: funny enuf, she wuz my best friend another lifetime ago. Like in jss2/jss3 before we had this huge fight! After then we never really sed more than hello to each other till now. Now we go everywhere together. It’s like you cant see me somewhere and not see her (except the few classes we don’t have in common). She’s wiv me practically all day so we talk bout boys, school,family and steez lyk we’ve known each other for ages.
Roommate 2: always knew her back then as roommate 1’s friend buh we reli weren’t friends or anyfin. Now we’re like sooo into the same things. Like she has time for the iranu I have time for. Like wen roommate 1 is actin all mature, we don’t evn mind, we just carry on with our foolishness. This babe cracks me up dieee!! I swear, you cant stay with ths girl 4 five mins and not laugh.
Oh well!! Guess that’s all of em!!
